Symptom Clusters & ICD
Neurotic, Stress-Related and Somatoform
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Neurotic, Stress-Related and Somatoform bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of anxiety, trauma, obsession and bodily distress. Almost every member is treated with a talking therapy first and an antidepressant second, and almost every member is kept alive by avoidance, of the place, the thought, or the sensation. Name the avoidance, and you have found the treatment.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the conditions where fear, worry, or a physical symptom has grown larger than the life around it, without any break from reality.
The task on the door is nearly always the same shape. Draw out the cluster of symptoms, reach the particular condition, and give a formulation in three parts, biological, psychological and social.
The thread through the whole family is that the talking therapy usually matters more than the tablet, and that avoidance, of the trauma, the feared place, the intrusive thought, or the bodily sensation, is the engine that keeps each one running.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
I can see something has been weighing on you. Tell me, in your own words, what has been happening, and how it has been affecting you.
Then you stop, and you listen for which member of the family this is. A trauma being relived. A worry that will not switch off. A fear of one particular thing. A thought they cannot expel. A fear about the body. The shape of the answer tells you which set of questions to reach for.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Post-traumatic stress disorder
First, post-traumatic stress disorder. The reliving of a trauma in the present, with avoidance and a body still braced for danger.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Re-experiencing in the here and now.
Since it happened, do you find yourself back there again? Flashbacks in the day, or nightmares at night?
Symptom 2. Avoidance.
Are there places or things you now stay away from? Have you changed the way you go, to keep away from anything that reminds you of it?
Symptom 3. Persistent sense of current threat.
Are you jumpy? Do you startle at sudden noises? How has your temper been, and your concentration?
Then, to close, these.
How long has it been now, since the day it happened? What has all of this stopped you doing? Work, driving, going out, sleeping in your own bed? Have you been drinking, or using anything, to help you cope with it? Have you felt at any point that you did not want to go on?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
Thank you for telling me all of that. From what you have described, being back there in flashbacks and nightmares, staying away from anything that reminds you, and being constantly on edge since it happened, what you have is post-traumatic stress disorder. It is a recognised condition, it is common after something like this, and it is treatable. We would treat it in three ways. Medically, with an antidepressant such as sertraline or venlafaxine. Psychologically, and this is the main treatment, with trauma-focused cognitive behavioural therapy, or with eye movement desensitisation. And socially, with help for your sleep, cutting down the alcohol, and support at work while you recover. Most people get better.
Complex post-traumatic stress disorder
Next, complex post-traumatic stress disorder. All of PTSD, plus damage to the feelings, the self, and the ability to be close, after trauma that went on for a long time.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The full PTSD triad first. Re-experiencing, avoidance, and a persistent sense of current threat, all three established before you go further.
Symptom 2. Affect dysregulation.
When something upsets you, how long does it take you to come down? Or do you go numb instead?
Symptom 3. Negative self-concept.
How do you see yourself now? Do you carry shame or blame about what happened?
Symptom 4. Disturbance in relationships.
How is it being close to people? Can you let anyone near?
Then, to close, these.
Was this something that happened once? Or something that went on for a long time? How safe do you feel now, today, where you are living? Who is there for you at the moment? What would you most want to be different, if we could help with one thing first?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
From everything you have told me, this is post-traumatic stress disorder, but of the kind we call complex, because it came from something that went on for a long time. That is why it affects not only your memories, but how you handle your feelings, how you see yourself, and how close you can let people get. The treatment has the same three parts. Medication, usually an antidepressant, to steady things. A longer, phase-based talking therapy, which begins with safety and stabilisation before it ever touches the trauma itself. And practical support, with housing, safety, and the people around you. This takes longer than ordinary PTSD, and it does get better.
Adjustment disorder
Adjustment disorder. A real and understandable reaction to a recent event, that has grown beyond what the person can carry alone.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The stressor.
What has happened in the last few weeks?
Symptom 2. Preoccupation.
Do you find yourself going over it, unable to put it aside?
Symptom 3. Failure to adapt.
How is it affecting your sleep, your work, your concentration?
Symptom 4. Timing.
Did all of this start within about a month of that event?
Then, to close, these.
How long is it now since all of this happened? What has it stopped you doing? Has anything helped at all, even a little? Have you had any thoughts of harming yourself since it began?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you are describing is an adjustment disorder. It means your symptoms are a real and understandable reaction to what has happened, but they have gone beyond what you can carry on your own. It is not a lifelong illness, and for most people it settles within months. The main treatment is not a tablet. It is problem-solving and brief talking therapy, and time. We would only use medication if your sleep or your mood became severe. And practically, we would look at what can be lifted off you at work and at home while you recover. I would also like to see you again soon, to make sure this is settling and not deepening.
Prolonged grief disorder
Prolonged grief. Grief is not an illness, but when it stays this intense and this disabling, long past what is expected, it needs help of its own.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The loss.
Tell me about them. And tell me about how they died.
Symptom 2. Yearning and preoccupation.
Do you find yourself longing for them, or thinking about them most of the day?
Symptom 3. Waves or flatness.
Does the sadness come in waves when something reminds you? Or is it flat and constant?
Symptom 4. Self-worth.
Do you feel worthless in yourself? Or is it the loss you cannot get past?
Symptom 5. Risk.
Have you had any wish to join them?
Then, to close, these.
How long is it now since they died? What have you not been able to go back to since? Who is around you at the moment? Are you eating, and sleeping, and looking after yourself?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you are living with is grief, and grief is not an illness. But when it stays this intense for this long, and stops you living, we call it prolonged grief disorder, and there is help for it. The main treatment is a talking therapy built specifically for grief, which helps you hold the loss without it holding you. Antidepressants are not the first answer for grief itself, though we would use one if a depression has grown alongside it. And socially, bereavement support and the people around you matter as much as anything I can prescribe. You are not going mad, and you are not failing at this.
Generalised anxiety disorder
Generalised anxiety disorder. Worry that is not attached to one thing, that moves from subject to subject, and that will not switch off.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Apprehension.
Do you find yourself worrying most days, about a lot of different things?
Symptom 2. Uncontrollability.
Can you switch the worry off? Or does it run on by itself?
Symptom 3. Autonomic and muscular symptoms.
Does it show in your body? Restlessness, muscle tension, palpitations, a churning stomach?
Symptom 4. Sleep and concentration.
Does it stop you getting off to sleep, or hold up your concentration?
Symptom 5. Free-floating quality.
Is the worry attached to one thing? Or does it move from one subject to the next?
Then, to close, these.
How long has the worrying been going on like this? What has it stopped you doing? How much coffee, tea or energy drink are you having in a day? Are you using alcohol to take the edge off it? And how has your mood been, alongside all the worry?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
From what you have told me, this is generalised anxiety disorder. The worry is not attached to one thing, it moves from subject to subject, you cannot switch it off, and it has been going on for months and is showing in your body. It is very treatable. Medically, an antidepressant such as sertraline is the first-line treatment, and it works on the worry, not just the mood. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy is at least as effective, and the benefit lasts longer. And practically, cutting the caffeine and the alcohol, regular exercise and better sleep make a real difference. We would avoid diazepam and its relatives, because they help for a fortnight and cause a problem for years.
Panic disorder
Panic disorder. Recurrent attacks of terror out of the blue, and then the fear of the next one keeping the whole thing alive.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The attack itself.
Take me through one of these episodes from the very start. How quickly did it reach its worst?
Symptom 2. Autonomic symptoms.
What did your body do? Your heart, your breathing, your chest, dizziness, tingling?
Symptom 3. Catastrophic cognition.
What went through your mind at the worst moment? That you would die, collapse, or lose control?
Symptom 4. Unexpectedness.
Do they come out of the blue? Or only in certain places?
Symptom 5. Anticipatory anxiety and avoidance.
Between attacks, do you worry about the next one? Have you started avoiding places because of it?
Then, to close, these.
How often are these attacks coming now? Have you started avoiding anywhere because of them? Has a doctor checked your heart and your thyroid? How much caffeine, alcohol or cannabis is going in? And how has your mood been between the attacks?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you are having are panic attacks, and the condition is panic disorder. What is happening is that your body's alarm system is firing when there is no danger, and then the fear of the next one keeps it going. The attacks are horrible, and they are not dangerous. We treat it in three ways. Medically, with an antidepressant such as sertraline. Psychologically, with cognitive behavioural therapy, which teaches you to stop fighting the symptoms and stop avoiding the places. And practically, by cutting caffeine, alcohol and cannabis, and by gradually going back to the places you have started to avoid. Most people improve a great deal.
Agoraphobia
Agoraphobia. The fear is not really of the shop or the bus, but of being somewhere you could not escape from, or could not get help.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The situations.
Which situations bring it on? Crowds, buses, shops, queues, being far from home?
Symptom 2. The feared outcome.
What are you afraid will happen? That you cannot get out, or cannot get help?
Symptom 3. Avoidance.
How much do you avoid now? Can you still go out on your own?
Symptom 4. Safety behaviours.
Is it easier if someone comes with you, or if you carry something with you?
Symptom 5. Impairment.
What has this taken away from you?
Then, to close, these.
How long has it been building up like this? When did you last manage to go out on your own? Who does the shopping, and the appointments, at the moment? How has your mood been, being in the house this much?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is agoraphobia. The fear is not really about the shop or the bus. It is about being somewhere you feel you could not get out of, or could not get help. Every time you avoid, the fear gets a little stronger, which is why it has spread. The main treatment is psychological, a graded return, step by step, at a pace you set, which is sometimes called systematic desensitisation. Medication, usually an antidepressant, helps to make that possible. And practically, we would look at support to get you out of the house in the first weeks, and at your mood, which almost always drops when life shrinks like this.
Social anxiety disorder
Social anxiety disorder. Not a fear of company, but of being watched and judged, which is why speaking up and eating in front of people are the hardest.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The situations.
Which situations are hardest? Speaking up, eating in front of people, meeting someone new?
Symptom 2. Fear of scrutiny.
What are you afraid of? Being judged, or embarrassing yourself?
Symptom 3. Visible signs.
Do you blush, sweat, shake, or go blank when it happens?
Symptom 4. Avoidance and safety behaviours.
Do you avoid it altogether, or endure it with dread? Do you drink beforehand to steady yourself for it?
Symptom 5. Impairment.
What has it cost you at work, and socially?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you felt like this in front of people? Were you a shy child? Or is this a change in you? Do you have a drink before these situations? What has it cost you at work, and outside work?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
This is social anxiety disorder. The fear is not of company. It is of being watched and judged, and that is why speaking up and eating in front of people are the hardest. Treatment works well. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy for social anxiety is the most effective single treatment, and it works partly by dropping the safety behaviours. Medically, an antidepressant such as sertraline or escitalopram. And practically, we would want to look at the drinking before events, because it works beautifully in the short term and makes everything worse over time.
Specific phobia
Specific phobia. A fear of one thing that is out of proportion, that the person already knows is out of proportion, and that they have organised their life around avoiding.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The object or situation.
What exactly is it that frightens you?
Symptom 2. Immediate anxiety.
What happens in your body the moment you see it, or even think about it?
Symptom 3. Recognition.
Do you know yourself that the fear is out of proportion?
Symptom 4. Avoidance.
What do you do to make sure you never meet it?
Symptom 5. Impairment.
What have you given up in order to avoid it?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you been frightened of it? Has anything happened around it, that started this off? Do you feel faint at the sight of it, or only frightened? What have you had to give up in order to keep away from it?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is a specific phobia. It is a fear that is out of proportion, that you already know is out of proportion, and that you have organised your life around avoiding. Medication has a very small part to play here. The treatment is psychological, a graded exposure, where you meet the thing you fear in small steps until your body learns it is safe. It is one of the most effective treatments in the whole of psychiatry. Practically, we would look at what avoiding it has cost you, because that is often the part worth treating first.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder
Obsessive-compulsive disorder. The thoughts are the person's own, they do not want them, they fight them, and the rituals bring a few minutes of relief and then feed the whole thing.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Obsessions.
Do thoughts come into your mind over and over, that you do not want and cannot get rid of?
Symptom 2. Ownership.
Do they feel like your own thoughts, even though you do not want them?
Symptom 3. Resistance and distress.
Do you try to push them away? What happens when you try?
Symptom 4. Compulsions.
Do you find you have to do something to put it right? Checking, washing, counting, or something you do in your head?
Symptom 5. Time and impairment.
How much of your day does all of this take up?
Symptom 6. Insight.
When you are calm, do you think the fear is realistic?
Then, to close, these.
How long has this been part of your day? When you are calm and away from it, do you think the fear is realistic? How much of the day is going on the checking and the washing? Has your mood dropped with all of this? Have you ever had a treatment for it before, and did it help?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you are describing is obsessive-compulsive disorder. The thoughts are your own thoughts, you do not want them, you try to fight them, and the rituals bring relief for a few minutes and then feed the whole thing. That is the trap, and it is not a weakness. We treat it in three ways. Medically, with a high dose of an antidepressant such as sertraline or fluoxetine, and it takes longer to work here than it does in depression. Psychologically, with exposure and response prevention, which is the most important part. And practically, by getting the people at home to stop taking part in the rituals, kindly, because reassurance keeps it alive.
Body dysmorphic disorder
Body dysmorphic disorder. The mind fixes on a feature and magnifies it, so that what the person sees is genuinely not what others see. It is not vanity, and it is exhausting.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The perceived defect.
What is it about your appearance that troubles you? Show me what you mean.
Symptom 2. Preoccupation.
How much of the day do you spend thinking about it?
Symptom 3. Repetitive behaviour.
Do you check it in mirrors, compare yourself to others, or ask people for reassurance?
Symptom 4. Camouflage and avoidance.
Do you cover it, or avoid situations because of it?
Symptom 5. Insight and conviction.
Could other people be right when they say they cannot see it?
Symptom 6. Risk. Cosmetic procedures sought, and mood and suicidal thinking, all screened directly.
Then, to close, these.
How long have you felt this way about your appearance? Have you had, or asked for, any cosmetic treatment for it? What has it stopped you doing? Work, friends, going out? Has it ever got so bad that you did not want to be here?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
This is body dysmorphic disorder. It is a condition where the mind fixes on a feature and magnifies it, so that what you see is genuinely not what other people see. It is not vanity, and it is exhausting. Treatment works. Medically, an antidepressant, usually fluoxetine, and often at a high dose. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy shaped for this condition, which works on the mirror checking, the comparing and the reassurance seeking. And practically, I would gently advise against further cosmetic procedures, because they very rarely help and often move the focus onto something else.
Health anxiety
Health anxiety. The body makes ordinary sensations, as everyone's does, and the alarm system reads them as danger, so the person checks, or asks, or avoids, and the relief never lasts.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Preoccupation.
Do you worry a great deal that you have, or will get, a serious illness?
Symptom 2. Bodily misinterpretation.
What convinces you? Are there sensations in your body that you read as dangerous?
Symptom 3. Checking or avoidance.
Do you check your body, or ask for reassurance? Or do you avoid doctors and tests altogether?
Symptom 4. Persistence after reassurance.
Does the worry come back, even after normal results?
Symptom 5. Impairment.
How much of your life is now organised around this?
Then, to close, these.
How long has the worry about your health been going on? How many doctors and how many tests have you been through for this? How long does the relief last after a normal result? And how has your mood been alongside the worry?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is health anxiety. Your body produces ordinary sensations, as everybody's does, and the alarm system reads them as dangerous, so you check, or you ask, or you avoid, and the relief never lasts. That is why the tests keep coming back normal and you keep feeling frightened. The treatment is mostly psychological. Cognitive behavioural therapy for health anxiety is very effective. Medically, an antidepressant helps where the anxiety is severe. And practically, we would agree that you see one doctor, at planned intervals, with no new tests unless there is a clear reason. That last part is treatment, not neglect.
Bodily distress disorder
Bodily distress disorder. Real physical symptoms that take up so much attention, and cause so much distress, that they have taken over the life. The first thing you say is that the symptoms are real.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The symptoms.
Which symptoms trouble you most, and how long have you had them?
Symptom 2. Excessive attention.
How much of your day goes on these symptoms?
Symptom 3. Health-seeking behaviour.
How many doctors and how many tests have you been through for this?
Symptom 4. Persistence.
Do the symptoms carry on even when everything comes back normal?
Symptom 5. Impairment.
What have the symptoms stopped you doing?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you had these symptoms now? How much of your day goes on them? What have they stopped you doing? How is your mood, living with this? I want to be clear with you. I believe your symptoms are real.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
I want to start by saying that your symptoms are real. I am not telling you it is all in your head. What I think is happening is bodily distress disorder, where real physical symptoms take up so much attention and cause so much distress that they have taken over your life. Treatment has three parts. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy, which is the strongest treatment we have here. Medically, an antidepressant, which helps pain and distress even without depression. And practically, one doctor, planned reviews, and a gradual return to activity rather than waiting to be pain-free before you start.
Dissociative disorders
Dissociative disorders. Genuine neurological-seeming symptoms, weakness, seizures, gaps in memory, that are not put on and not under control, where the connection between mind and body has been interrupted.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The symptom.
What happens? Weakness, seizures, loss of sensation, or gaps in memory?
Symptom 2. Onset and context.
Did it come on around a difficult or upsetting time?
Symptom 3. Incompatibility. Does it follow a recognised nerve pattern, or does it vary and fluctuate?
Symptom 4. Absence of feigning. Is there anything to be gained by it? And is the person aware of producing it?
Symptom 5. Impairment.
What can you not do now that you could do before?
Then, to close, these.
When did this start, and what was happening in your life around then? What can you not do now, that you could do before? Have you had any injuries during these episodes? Has anything like this ever happened to you before?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is a dissociative disorder. The symptoms are absolutely genuine, they are not put on, and they are not under your control. What has happened is that the connection between the mind and the body has been interrupted, often around a time of great stress. The most important part of the treatment is this explanation, because understanding it is what allows it to improve. Then, psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy and physiotherapy working together. Medically, we treat any depression or anxiety underneath. And practically, we stop the unnecessary tests, because each one makes recovery harder. Many people get better.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - Trauma versus a phobia after an accident
Both can follow a crash and both avoid the car. Post-traumatic stress disorder adds the reliving, flashbacks and nightmares of the event, and a body braced for danger. A specific phobia is fear of the situation itself, without the reliving. Ask whether they are back there again, or simply frightened of the thing.
2 - Panic disorder versus panic inside a phobia
Panic disorder needs recurrent, unexpected attacks, out of the blue. Panic that only ever fires in the feared situation, the spider, the crowd, the social event, belongs to the phobia, not to panic disorder. The discriminator is whether the attacks come from nowhere.
3 - Obsession versus health anxiety versus body dysmorphia
All three check, seek reassurance and avoid. The engine differs. Obsessive-compulsive disorder is an intrusive, resisted thought neutralised by a ritual. Health anxiety is the fear of having a serious illness. Body dysmorphia is a fixation on a perceived defect in appearance. Ask what the checking is for.
4 - An understandable reaction versus a disorder
Adjustment disorder and prolonged grief are measured against what is normal for the circumstance and the culture. The line is crossed by how long it lasts, by preoccupation, and by a failure to function well beyond what is expected. Never pathologise an ordinary reaction, and never miss a disorder growing inside one.
5 - A genuine somatic disorder versus a feigned one
Bodily distress disorder and the dissociative disorders are genuine and involuntary. The single thing that fails the station is any hint the person is putting it on. The symptoms are real, what has changed is the mind-body connection, not the honesty. Never imply the symptom is invented.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one line. Fear, worry or a bodily symptom, kept alive by avoidance, and lifted by a talking therapy first and a tablet second.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Mood (Affective) Disorders
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Mood (Affective) Disorders bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of the mood disorders. The low pole, the high pole, and the severe forms where the mood has bent reality into a delusion. The one question that changes everything is whether the person has ever swung the other way, because a single past high turns a depression into a bipolar illness and changes the treatment.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the disorders of mood. The depressive pole, the manic pole, and the severe presentations where mood has produced a delusion or a hallucination.
The task is to establish the episode, judge its depth, and above all ask whether the person has ever swung the other way, because one past high changes a depression into a bipolar illness and changes the treatment entirely.
The thread is that you never assess a low mood without screening for a past high, and you never treat a high without protecting the person from their own judgement while it lasts.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
Tell me how you have been in yourself lately, in your mood and your energy, and how long it has been this way.
Then you listen for the pole. Low, flat, slowed, hopeless, is the depressive end. High, fast, needing no sleep, is the manic end. And whichever you find, you always ask about the opposite pole, because the answer decides the diagnosis.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Depressive episode
First, the depressive episode. Low mood most of the day, nearly every day, for more than two weeks, with the enjoyment gone and the body and sleep changed.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Affective.
How has your mood been in yourself? And has it been there most of the day, nearly every day?
Symptom 2. Anhedonia.
Are you still able to enjoy the things you used to look forward to?
Symptom 3. Energy.
How is your energy? Are you tired even after you have rested?
Symptom 4. Cognitive and behavioural.
How is your concentration? Do you find yourself blaming yourself, or feeling worthless?
Symptom 5. Neurovegetative.
How is your sleep? Are you waking early? And how are your appetite and your weight?
Symptom 6. Risk.
Have you felt that life is not worth living, or had thoughts of ending it?
Then, to close, these.
How long has it been like this now? Two weeks, or longer? What has it stopped you doing? Has there ever been a spell when the opposite happened, when you were unusually high, or did not need sleep? How much are you drinking at the moment? And have you had any thoughts of ending your life?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
From everything you have told me, you have a depressive episode. Your mood has been low most of the day, nearly every day, for more than two weeks, you have lost your enjoyment, your sleep and appetite have changed, and it is affecting what you can do. This is an illness, not a character flaw, and it is one of the most treatable conditions in medicine. Medically, an antidepressant such as sertraline. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy, and the two together do better than either alone. And socially, sleep, activity, exercise, and taking some pressure off you while you recover. Most people make a full recovery.
Psychotic depression
Psychotic depression. A depression that has become severe enough to bend reality, with mood-congruent beliefs of guilt, punishment or a body that is rotting. It is treatable, often quickly, and usually in hospital.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The full depressive episode first. Every feature of the depression, established before you go near the psychosis.
Symptom 2. Mood-congruent delusions.
Have you had thoughts about being to blame, or about being punished, or about your body rotting or being ruined?
Symptom 3. Nihilistic and hypochondriacal content.
Do you feel that something inside you has stopped working, or has died?
Symptom 4. Hallucinations.
Do you hear anything, when there is nobody there? What does the voice say?
Symptom 5. Psychomotor change. Observed, not asked. Retardation, poverty of speech, long latencies.
Symptom 6. Risk.
Given all of that, have you felt you deserve to die?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you felt this way? How much have you been eating and drinking? Have you had any thoughts that you deserve to be punished, or that you deserve to die? Is there anyone at home with you? I would like to get you seen quickly, because I think this is treatable and you are suffering a great deal.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is a severe depression, and it has become severe enough that it is affecting the way you see the world, which is why you have come to believe those things about yourself. Those beliefs are a symptom of the illness. That means they will lift as the illness is treated. This needs treating quickly and usually in hospital. Medically, an antidepressant together with an antipsychotic, and where it is very severe, or you are not eating and drinking, electroconvulsive therapy works quickly and well. Then talking therapy once you are recovering, and support at home afterwards. People do get fully better from this.
Manic episode
The manic episode. Raised or irritable mood, energy up, needing no sleep, and the judgement affected in ways that are hard to see from the inside. Part of a bipolar illness.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Mood.
How have you been in yourself? Has your mood been unusually high, or unusually irritable?
Symptom 2. Activity and energy.
Are you doing far more than usual? More plans, more projects, more energy?
Symptom 3. Reduced need for sleep.
How much sleep are you needing? Do you feel rested on very little?
Symptom 4. Speech and thought.
Are your thoughts racing? Do people tell you that you are talking too fast to follow?
Symptom 5. Grandiosity.
Do you feel more important or more capable than usual? Any special powers or abilities?
Symptom 6. Disinhibition.
Have you been spending more, or doing things out of character, with money or sexually?
Symptom 7. Psychotic features.
Have you had any beliefs that other people found strange? Any voices?
Then, to close, these.
How long has this been going on now? Has any of it caused you trouble? With money, with driving, with people? Are you taking anything at the moment, any drugs, or steroids, or new tablets? Who is at home with you, and are there children at home? Would you be willing to come into hospital, so we can help you safely?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What is happening to you is a manic episode, which is part of bipolar affective disorder. Your mood is high, your energy is up, you do not need sleep, and your judgement is being affected in ways that are hard to see from the inside. The immediate treatment is medical, an antipsychotic such as olanzapine or quetiapine to settle things quickly, and then a mood stabiliser such as lithium to keep you well. Alongside that, talking therapy and psychoeducation, so you learn your own early warning signs. And socially, sleep, no drugs or alcohol, and protecting your money and your job while you recover. I would like you to come into hospital so we can do this safely.
Hypomania
Hypomania. A raised mood with more energy and less need for sleep, that has not gone far enough to stop the person functioning or to tip into psychosis. Taken with past lows, it points to a bipolar illness of the second type.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Mood and energy.
How have you been in yourself over the last week or two? Better than usual, or on edge?
Symptom 2. Reduced need for sleep.
How many hours are you sleeping? And do you feel tired the next day?
Symptom 3. Increased activity and sociability.
Are you doing more, saying more, going out more than you normally would?
Symptom 4. Duration.
How many days has this run for now?
Symptom 5. Impairment, or the absence of it.
Has it caused any real trouble at work or at home? Has anyone had to step in?
Then, to close, these.
How many days has this been going on now? Has anyone had to step in, or has anything gone wrong because of it? Have you had spells of low mood in the past? Are you taking any medication, and have you started or stopped anything recently?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have had is a hypomanic episode. It is a raised mood, with more energy and less need for sleep, but it has not gone far enough to stop you functioning. Taken with your past periods of low mood, this points to bipolar affective disorder, of the second type. Medically, we would think about a mood stabiliser, and we would be careful with antidepressants on their own, because they can push you up. Psychologically, psychoeducation and therapy help you recognise the early signs. And socially, a regular sleep routine is one of the single most protective things you can do.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - Depression versus a bipolar depression
A depressive episode and the low phase of a bipolar illness look identical in the room. The only thing that separates them is a past high. Always ask about times of elevated or irritable mood, reduced need for sleep, overspending or overactivity, because missing a past mania means giving an antidepressant alone and risking a switch into a high.
2 - Depression versus psychotic depression
The difference is whether the mood has bent reality. Guilt that has hardened into a belief of deserving punishment, a conviction the body is rotting or has died, a voice confirming worthlessness. When the depression carries mood-congruent delusions or hallucinations, it is psychotic, and it needs an antipsychotic and often urgent, sometimes inpatient, care.
3 - Mania versus hypomania
Both are raised mood with energy and reduced need for sleep. Mania lasts at least a week, causes marked impairment, and may carry psychosis. Hypomania is shorter, milder, and does not stop the person functioning or tip into psychosis. Grade it by the impairment and the presence of psychosis, and say which you are describing.
4 - A primary high versus a drug or organic one
Steroids, stimulants, an overactive thyroid, and drugs such as levodopa all produce a manic-looking state. The chronology decides it. A high that begins with the drug or the physical illness, and settles when it is removed, is not a primary bipolar mania. Always place the episode against the timeline of substances and physical health.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one rule. Never assess a low without screening for a past high, and never treat a high without protecting the person's judgement while it lasts.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Perinatal and Women's Mental Health
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Perinatal and Women's Mental Health bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of the illnesses of the perinatal period. They range from the common and community-managed, postnatal depression, to the emergency that must be admitted the same day, postpartum psychosis. Running through all three is one question about the baby, and the answer decides how fast you must move.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the mental illnesses that arrive in pregnancy and the weeks after birth.
The task is to place the mother on a spectrum of urgency, from a depression treated in the community, through an obsessional disorder that needs reassurance and therapy, to a psychosis that is a same-day emergency.
The thread is that every perinatal station is also a risk assessment of two people, the mother and the baby, and that the pivotal question is always what kind of thought she is having about the child.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
Having a new baby can be one of the hardest times, and it is common to struggle. Tell me how you have been in yourself since the birth, and how things are with the baby.
Then you listen for which it is. A sustained low mood and difficulty bonding is depression. Frightening thoughts she resists is an obsessional disorder. A rapid, perplexed, fluctuating state with strange beliefs is a psychosis, and it is an emergency.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Postnatal depression
First, postnatal depression. Common, affecting around one mother in ten, not her fault, and not a sign she is a bad mother. The bonding is often the concern the referral leads with.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Timing.
When did this start, in relation to the birth?
Symptom 2. Core mood.
How has your mood been? And are you able to enjoy anything at all?
Symptom 3. Bonding.
How do you feel towards the baby? Are you able to feel close to her?
Symptom 4. Coping and support.
Who is helping you? Are you managing the feeds, and your own sleep?
Symptom 5. Risk to both.
Have you had any thoughts of harming yourself? And any thoughts about the baby that frighten you?
Then, to close, these.
How long is it now since the baby was born? Are you breastfeeding at the moment? Who is helping you? Are you getting any sleep at all? Have you had any thoughts of harming yourself, or any thoughts about the baby that frighten you? Has anything like this happened to you before, or to anyone in your family?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is postnatal depression. It is common, it affects around one mother in ten, it is not your fault, and it does not mean you are a bad mother. It is very treatable. Medically, an antidepressant, and there are ones we can use safely while you are breastfeeding, such as sertraline. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy or interpersonal therapy, which is often the first choice where symptoms are mild or moderate. And socially, practical help with sleep and feeds, the health visitor, support with bonding, and the people around you. You will get better, and the bond with your baby recovers as you do.
Postpartum psychosis
Postpartum psychosis. A rapid-onset illness in the days after birth, affecting the way the mother sees things. It is a psychiatric emergency, and it has one of the best recoveries in the whole of psychiatry.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Onset.
How many days after the birth did this start?
Symptom 2. Mood.
Has her mood been high, low, or swinging within the same day?
Symptom 3. Psychotic symptoms.
Has she had any strange beliefs, particularly anything about the baby? Any voices?
Symptom 4. Perplexity and fluctuation.
Is she muddled or bewildered? And is it worse at some times of day than others?
Symptom 5. Risk.
Has she said or done anything that could harm herself or the baby?
Then, to close, these.
How many days is it since the birth? Who is with the baby right now? Have you or anyone in your family ever had a high or a low period, or been in hospital for their mental health? I am worried about you, and I would like to admit you and the baby together to a specialist unit, today.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What is happening is postpartum psychosis. It is an illness, it has come on very quickly after the birth, and it is affecting the way you are seeing things. It is a medical emergency, but I want you to hear the other half of that. It has one of the best recoveries in the whole of psychiatry. Medically, an antipsychotic, often with lithium, and electroconvulsive therapy where it is very severe. Practically, admission to a Mother and Baby Unit, so you and your baby stay together. And afterwards, talking therapy, and a plan for any future pregnancy, because the risk comes back. You are unwell, and you will recover.
Perinatal obsessive-compulsive disorder
Perinatal obsessive-compulsive disorder. Frightening intrusive thoughts of harm coming to the baby, that horrify the mother. The single most important thing you say is that these thoughts are a symptom, and the opposite of intent.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Content of the obsession.
Do frightening thoughts come to you, about harm coming to the baby?
Symptom 2. Ego-dystonic quality.
Do they horrify you? Are they the very last thing you would ever want?
Symptom 3. Compulsion or avoidance.
Do you check on her again and again? Or avoid bathing her, or avoid being alone with her?
Symptom 4. The critical differentiation. Is she terrified she might harm the baby, or convinced the baby must be harmed? The first is obsession, the second is psychosis.
Symptom 5. Impact.
How much of the day goes on this? And what has it taken away from you and the baby?
Then, to close, these.
How long have these thoughts been coming? Do they horrify you? Are they the very last thing you would ever want? What have you stopped doing with her because of them? I want to say this clearly. These thoughts are a symptom, and they are the opposite of what you want. They do not mean you will act on them.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is obsessive-compulsive disorder, of the kind that arrives after childbirth. I want to say the most important thing first. These thoughts horrify you. That is exactly what tells me they are obsessions, and it is the opposite of intent. Mothers with this condition are not the ones who harm their babies. Treatment works well. Medically, an antidepressant such as sertraline, which is compatible with breastfeeding. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy with exposure and response prevention. And practically, support from the perinatal team, and stopping the checking and the avoidance so you can get back to being with her.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - Postnatal depression versus the baby blues
The baby blues are a brief, tearful, self-limiting dip in the first days after birth, gone within a fortnight. Postnatal depression is a sustained low mood, over weeks, with the enjoyment gone, the bonding affected, and a real impact on coping. Duration and severity separate them. A low that has not lifted after two weeks is not the blues.
2 - Postnatal depression versus postpartum psychosis
Depression is low mood, guilt and difficulty bonding, in clear touch with reality. Psychosis is rapid, fluctuating, perplexed, with strange beliefs, often about the baby, or a mood swinging high and low within a day. Psychosis is an emergency needing admission; depression is treated in the community. Look for delusions, perplexity and fluctuation to separate them.
3 - Perinatal obsession versus a psychotic belief about the baby
This is the discrimination that carries the whole perinatal risk. A mother terrified she might harm the baby, horrified by thoughts she resists, has obsessive-compulsive disorder, and is one of the least likely to act. A mother convinced the baby must be harmed, or is evil, or must not be fed, is psychotic, and is a genuine emergency. Ask whether the thought is feared or believed.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one question. What kind of thought is she having about the baby, feared, or believed, and how fast must you therefore move.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Psychotic Disorders and Descriptive Psychopathology
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Psychotic Disorders and Descriptive Psychopathology bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of psychosis and of the descriptive work on abnormal belief. It runs from first-episode psychosis and schizophrenia, through the phenomenology that decides where a belief lands, to the encapsulated delusional disorders where one fixed belief sits in an otherwise intact life. You never argue with a belief; you understand it, characterise it, and treat the illness behind it.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the psychotic illnesses, and of the descriptive psychopathology, delusion, overvalued idea, primary and secondary, that underpins them.
The task is to elicit the psychotic symptoms without arguing with them, to characterise the beliefs, and to place them, first episode, schizophrenia, delusional disorder, or a look-alike, before giving the formulation and the risk.
The thread is that the risk lives in what the belief makes the person do, and that in the encapsulated forms, morbid jealousy and erotomania, the safety of another person is part of the station.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
I would like to understand how things have been for you. Have there been experiences lately that others did not seem to share, or beliefs that people around you have found hard to accept?
Then you listen for the shape. A fuller picture of voices, interference and withdrawal is a first-episode or schizophrenic illness. One fixed, encapsulated belief in an otherwise intact life is a delusional disorder. And whatever the belief, you never dispute it, you characterise it.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
First-episode psychosis and schizophrenia
First, first-episode psychosis. The mind has started producing experiences, voices or beliefs, that feel completely real from the inside but come from the illness. Treating it early makes a real difference.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Delusions.
Have you had thoughts or beliefs that other people found strange? That you are being watched, followed, or got at?
Symptom 2. Hallucinations.
Do you ever hear voices when there is nobody there? Whose voice? One or several? Talking to you, or about you?
Symptom 3. Thought alienation.
Does anything interfere with your thoughts? Put them in, take them out, or make them known to others?
Symptom 4. Passivity.
Does anything or anyone control your actions, your feelings, or your body from outside?
Symptom 5. Negative symptoms.
Has there been any change in your motivation, your self-care, or have you pulled away from people?
Symptom 6. Risk.
Do the voices tell you to do things? Any thoughts of harming yourself, or anyone else?
Then, to close, these.
How long has all of this been going on? What has it stopped you doing? College, work, seeing people? Are you using any drugs at the moment, cannabis or anything else? Do the voices ever tell you to do things, and have you ever come close to doing them? What do you think is causing all of this yourself?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have been experiencing is called psychosis. It means the mind has started producing experiences, voices or beliefs, that feel completely real from the inside but are coming from the illness. This is a first episode, and treating it early makes a real difference to how well you do. Medically, an antipsychotic, at the lowest dose that works, with monitoring of your weight, your bloods and your heart. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy for psychosis, and family work, which is one of the strongest ways of preventing relapse. And socially, support with college or work, and stopping the cannabis, which is the single biggest thing you can do yourself.
Delusion, the full assessment
The full assessment of a delusion. Not a diagnosis in itself, but the descriptive work that decides where a belief lands. You never argue with it, you understand it, and you characterise it.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Content.
Tell me more about this belief.
Symptom 2. Onset.
How did it come about? Did it arrive suddenly, complete, out of an ordinary moment?
Symptom 3. Conviction.
How certain are you? Could there be any other explanation?
Symptom 4. Fixity.
Is there anything at all that would change your mind?
Symptom 5. Primary or secondary.
Did the belief come first? Or did the low mood, or the high mood, or the voice come first?
Symptom 6. Action.
What have you done about it? Or what are you planning to do?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you believed this now? What have you done about it so far? What are you planning to do next? Do the people around you, your family, your community, see it the same way? Has this belief changed how you eat, sleep, or where you go?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
I can see that this belief feels completely real to you, and I am not going to argue with you about it. What I can tell you is what I think is happening. I think you are unwell, and that the illness has made this belief feel certain. That is called a delusion, and it is a symptom, in the same way that a fever is a symptom. It is treated with an antipsychotic medication, which works on the certainty and the distress rather than by arguing you out of it. Alongside that, talking therapy that helps you look at the evidence at your own pace, and practical support so that this belief costs you less in your work and your relationships while you recover.
Overvalued idea
The overvalued idea. A belief you can follow the logic of, arrived at understandably, but that has come to dominate the life. It is not mad, and the difficulty is not the belief itself but how much room it takes up.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The belief.
Tell me about this belief, and how it started.
Symptom 2. Understandability.
Can you help me see how you got there? What made it make sense to you?
Symptom 3. Dominance.
How much of your day and your life does it now take up?
Symptom 4. Shakeability.
If I gave you good evidence against it, would you consider it?
Symptom 5. Shared or not.
Do the people you worship with, or the people around you, believe the same?
Symptom 6. Consequence.
What have you changed in your life because of it?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you thought this way? How much of your day goes on it now? What have you changed in your life because of it? Do the people you worship with, or the people around you, believe the same thing? If someone showed you good evidence against it, would you look at it?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have described is what we call an overvalued idea. I can follow how you arrived at it. It is not mad, and I am not going to tell you it is nonsense. The difficulty is not the belief itself. It is how much of your life it is now taking up. That is what I would like to help with. Medication has a limited role here, unless there is a depression or anxiety underneath, which we would treat. The main treatment is psychological, working on how much room it takes up and what it is costing you. And practically, we would look at the parts of your life that have shrunk around it.
Delusional disorder and morbid jealousy
Delusional disorder. The mind has become absolutely certain of one thing, and everything else about the person is working, which is exactly why it is so easy to miss. In the jealous form, it is one of the highest-risk beliefs in psychiatry.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The single belief.
Tell me about this belief, and how long you have held it.
Symptom 2. The evidence.
What is the proof? And could there be another explanation for it?
Symptom 3. Encapsulation.
Outside of this, how is work, how is home, how are you managing?
Symptom 4. Absence of other symptoms.
Any voices? Any interference with your thoughts?
Symptom 5. Checking behaviour.
Do you check her phone, her clothes, her movements? Do you follow her?
Symptom 6. Risk.
What have you done when you have been certain? Have you ever threatened or hurt her?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you believed this about her? Outside of this, how is work, and how is everything else? How much are you drinking at the moment? What has happened when you have been most certain? Has it ever come to anything physical? Are there children in the house? And where is she right now?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
I think what is happening is an illness called a delusional disorder. It means the mind has become absolutely certain of one thing, and it will not shift, even when the evidence is against it. Everything else about you is working, which is exactly why it has been so hard for anyone to spot. Medically, an antipsychotic is the treatment, and it works slowly, so it needs patience. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy where you are willing to engage. And practically, and I have to be honest with you about this, we have to think about your partner's safety, and about the drinking, because that pours petrol on it. I would rather tell you that to your face than go behind you.
Erotomania
Erotomania. The delusional-disorder belief that a particular person, often of higher status, is secretly in love with the patient. The management is as much about the safety of the other person as about treatment.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The belief.
Tell me about your relationship with her. How do you know she feels that way?
Symptom 2. The evidence.
What has she done that tells you? What did that gesture mean to you?
Symptom 3. Status of the object.
Who is she? Have you ever actually spoken?
Symptom 4. Pursuit.
Have you written, called, or gone to find her?
Symptom 5. Response to rejection.
What did you make of it when she said no? Was that really her speaking?
Symptom 6. Risk.
Do you plan to see her again? What would you do if someone stood in the way?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you known that she feels this way about you? Have you ever spoken to her, or met her? Have you written, called, or gone to find her? What did you make of it when she said no? What are you planning to do next, and what would you do if someone stood in the way?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
I think you have an illness called a delusional disorder, of the kind where the mind becomes certain that someone is in love with you. It is a real illness, and it is not your fault, and it is treatable. Medically, we treat it with an antipsychotic. Psychologically, with therapy once you are more settled. And practically, I have to be straightforward with you. Contacting her, or going to find her, will end in the police and in court, and that will harm you more than it will harm her. Part of my job is to help you keep out of that, and part of it is to make sure she is safe. I will always tell you what I am doing.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - Delusion versus overvalued idea
A delusion is held with fixed, unshakeable certainty and, when primary, arrives fully formed out of nowhere. An overvalued idea can be followed logically, was arrived at understandably, and bends a little when gently tested; the trouble is how much of the life it dominates, not the belief itself. Conviction and the logic of arrival separate them, not how strange the belief sounds.
2 - Schizophrenia versus delusional disorder
Schizophrenia carries the fuller picture, hallucinations, thought alienation, passivity, negative symptoms, and a wider disturbance of function. Delusional disorder is one encapsulated belief with everything else intact, which is why it is missed. Screen explicitly for voices, thought interference and negative symptoms, and their absence points to a delusional disorder.
3 - Primary versus secondary delusion
A primary delusion arises fully formed from nothing and is diagnostically weighty. A secondary delusion grows out of another experience, a low mood, a high mood, or a voice. Ask what came first. If the belief followed the mood or the hallucination, it is secondary, and you treat the primary illness.
4 - Morbid jealousy, the risk that outweighs the evidence
The evidence for the jealous belief is usually absurd, but the danger is not. Morbid jealousy is among the highest-risk delusions in psychiatry, with a real homicide risk, and alcohol is the commonest driver. Whatever the belief sounds like, ask about weapons, children in the home, previous violence, and where the partner is now.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one line. Never argue with a belief, characterise it, and remember the risk lives in what it makes the person do, and in the encapsulated forms, in the safety of someone else.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Substance Use and Addictive Disorders
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Substance Use and Addictive Disorders bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of the addictive disorders. Every member shares the same dependence syndrome, a compulsion, impaired control, tolerance, withdrawal, and the primacy of use. What differs is the drug, the emergency each can produce, and whether stopping suddenly is merely unpleasant or genuinely dangerous. You never judge, and you place the burden of denial on the patient by asking when they last used, not whether they use.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of dependence, across alcohol, opioids and the sedative drugs.
The task is to establish the dependence syndrome, recognise the emergency each substance can cause, and set out a safe plan, always in three parts, biological, psychological and social.
The thread is chronology, whether a psychiatric symptom came before or after the use, and safety, whether the withdrawal is the harmless kind or the kind that seizes and kills.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
I would like to understand your drinking, or your using, without any judgement. When did you last have some, and how much do you have on a usual day?
Then you build the timeline. When it started, how it grew, whether the body now needs it, and how any other symptoms, voices, low mood, confusion, sit in relation to the use. The order in time decides the diagnosis.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Alcohol dependence
First, alcohol dependence. The drinking is no longer fully under control, it has taken priority over other things, and the body has become used to it. You are not there to judge.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Pattern.
Take me through a typical drinking day. What, when, and how much?
Symptom 2. Impaired control.
Once you start, are you able to stop?
Symptom 3. Salience.
Has drinking come before other things? Work, family, the things you used to enjoy?
Symptom 4. Tolerance.
Do you need more than you used to, for the same effect?
Symptom 5. Withdrawal.
What happens if you go without? Shakes, sweats, sickness? Do you need one in the morning to steady yourself?
Symptom 6. Continued use despite harm.
Has it damaged your health, your job or your relationships? And are you still drinking?
Then, to close, these.
How long has it been at this level? What is the longest you have gone without a drink, and what ended it? Have you ever had a fit, or seen things, when you stopped? Are you driving? And is anyone depending on you at home? What would you like to happen next, if we could help?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
From what you have described, you have alcohol dependence. That means your drinking is no longer fully under your control, it has taken priority over other things, and your body has become used to it, which is why you shake in the morning. This is treatable, and I am not here to judge you. Medically, a planned detoxification with chlordiazepoxide, thiamine to protect your memory, and then a medication such as acamprosate or naltrexone to help you stay stopped. Psychologically, motivational work and relapse prevention. And socially, the alcohol service, peer support, and help with the job and the family. I would ask you not to stop suddenly on your own, because that is the dangerous way to do it.
Alcoholic hallucinosis
Alcoholic hallucinosis. The drinking has caused voices, but the mind is otherwise clear, the person knows where they are, and they are not confused. That clear sensorium is what tells you this is not the dangerous confusion of withdrawal delirium.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The hallucination.
What do you hear? Whose voice? Is it speaking to you, or about you?
Symptom 2. Clear sensorium.
Do you know where you are, and what day it is? Are you muddled at all?
Symptom 3. Relationship to drinking.
Are you still drinking now? Or did this start after you cut down?
Symptom 4. Content.
What do the voices say? Are they critical or threatening?
Symptom 5. Duration.
How long has this gone on for?
Symptom 6. Risk.
Do the voices tell you to do anything?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you been hearing them? Are you still drinking now, or have you cut down? Do they ever tell you to do anything? Do you know where you are, and what day it is? I am asking because it matters for the diagnosis. The good news is that this usually settles once the drinking is treated.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is called alcoholic hallucinosis. It means the drinking has caused you to hear voices, but your mind is otherwise clear, you know where you are, and you are not confused. That is important, because it tells me this is not the dangerous confusion we call the withdrawal delirium. It usually clears once the drinking is treated. Medically, we may use a short course of an antipsychotic, along with thiamine and a planned detoxification. Psychologically, relapse prevention work. And socially, the alcohol service and support at home. The voices are frightening, and they are not permanent.
Delirium tremens
Delirium tremens. A severe alcohol withdrawal with clouded consciousness, tremor, sweating and frightening visions, coming on a few days after the last drink. It can be dangerous, and it is treated now, not later.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Time since the last drink.
When did you last have a drink? How many days ago?
Symptom 2. Clouding of consciousness.
Do you know where you are? What time of day is it? Who am I?
Symptom 3. Perceptual disturbance.
Are you seeing anything, or feeling anything on your skin?
Symptom 4. Autonomic overactivity. Observed. Tremor, sweating, a racing heart, high blood pressure, fever.
Symptom 5. Secondary delusions.
What do you make of what you are seeing? Who do you think is doing it?
Symptom 6. Fluctuation.
Is it worse at some times than others, and worse at night?
Then, to close, these.
When did you last have a drink? Do you know where you are at the moment? Have you had any fits since you stopped? I am going to keep you here and treat this now, because it can become dangerous if we do not.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What is happening to you is called delirium tremens. It is a severe withdrawal from alcohol, and it is the reason you are confused, shaking and seeing things. I need to be honest with you. This can be dangerous if it is not treated, and that is why I want to keep you here. Medically, we treat it with a benzodiazepine such as chlordiazepoxide, with fluids, and with thiamine injections to protect your memory. We will monitor you closely for fits. Once you are through it, we will talk about the drinking itself and get the alcohol service involved. You are safe here.
Opioid dependence
Opioid dependence. The body has adapted to the drug, which is why the person gets ill without it. That is a physical process, not a failure of will, and treatment works.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Pattern and route.
What are you using, how much a day, and how? Smoking or injecting?
Symptom 2. Impaired control.
Can you cut down when you decide to?
Symptom 3. Salience.
How much of your day goes on getting it and using it?
Symptom 4. Tolerance and withdrawal.
Do you need more now? And what happens when you cannot get it?
Symptom 5. Injecting risk.
Do you share any equipment? Have you been tested for hepatitis and HIV?
Symptom 6. Overdose risk.
Have you ever overdosed? Do you use alone? Do you have naloxone at home?
Then, to close, these.
How long has it been at this level? Are you injecting? And do you ever share anything? Have you been tested for hepatitis and HIV? Have you ever overdosed? Do you use on your own? Do you have naloxone at home? What would you like from us? Are you looking to stop, or to stabilise first?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is opioid dependence. Your body has adapted to the heroin, which is why you get ill without it, and that is a physical process, not a failure of will. Treatment works, and people do recover. Medically, opioid substitution treatment with methadone or buprenorphine, so you are stable and not chasing it every day, plus testing for hepatitis and HIV, vaccination, and naloxone to keep at home. Psychologically, keyworking and relapse prevention. And socially, help with housing, money and the people around you. One thing I must say. If you stop for a while and then use your old amount, that is when people die. Please take the naloxone.
Benzodiazepine dependence
Benzodiazepine dependence. Often prescribed, and this is what these medicines do when taken for a long time. It is not the person's fault, and the plan is always a gradual reduction, never a sudden stop.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. How it started.
How did you first come to be prescribed this? What was it for?
Symptom 2. Current pattern.
How much are you taking now, and how often? Is it more than was prescribed?
Symptom 3. Tolerance.
Does the same dose still work the way it did at the beginning?
Symptom 4. Withdrawal.
What happens if a dose is late, or if you miss one?
Symptom 5. Attempts to stop.
Have you tried to come off before? What happened?
Symptom 6. Impact.
How is your memory, your balance, and your energy on it?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you been taking them now? Have you tried to come off before? What happened when you did? How is your memory, your balance, and your driving on them? I want to reassure you. We would never stop these suddenly. We would come down slowly, and at a pace you agree to.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What has happened is that your body has become dependent on the lorazepam. That is not your fault. It was prescribed to you, and this is what these medicines do when they are taken for a long time. The plan is a gradual reduction, and I want to reassure you that we will never stop it suddenly, because that can cause fits. Medically, we usually switch to diazepam, which is longer acting, and then come down slowly at a pace you agree to. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy for the anxiety underneath, because if we do not treat that, the reduction will not hold. And practically, regular reviews, and no rush.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - Alcoholic hallucinosis versus delirium tremens
Both follow heavy drinking, and both frighten the family. The single discriminator is the sensorium. In hallucinosis the person is clear, oriented and not confused, hearing voices in a clear mind. In delirium tremens the consciousness is clouded, fluctuating, disoriented, with tremor, sweating and visions. Check orientation. A clouded mind is the emergency.
2 - Substance-induced psychosis versus a primary psychosis
Chronology decides it. Symptoms that begin during or soon after heavy use, exceed what intoxication or withdrawal alone would explain, and settle with sustained abstinence, are substance-induced. Symptoms that predate the use, or persist well beyond abstinence, are primary, with the substance a passenger. Prominent visual hallucinations point away from a primary schizophrenia.
3 - Withdrawal that is safe versus withdrawal that kills
Alcohol and benzodiazepine withdrawal can cause seizures and, for alcohol, a delirium that can be fatal. Opioid withdrawal is deeply unpleasant but rarely dangerous in itself. Never let a person stop alcohol or benzodiazepines suddenly and alone; a planned, supported reduction is the safe route, and saying so is part of the station.
4 - Dependence versus harmful use
Dependence needs the core features, a compulsion, impaired control, tolerance or withdrawal, and the primacy of use. Harmful use is a pattern causing damage without those features of dependence. Do not over-diagnose dependence in a heavy but controlled drinker, and do not miss it in someone who shakes in the morning.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is two lines. Chronology decides substance-induced from primary, and safety decides everything, never let alcohol or a sedative be stopped suddenly and alone.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Organic and Neurocognitive Disorders
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Organic and Neurocognitive Disorders bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of the disorders of the brain itself. An acute, reversible confusion, the four progressive dementias, and the amnestic syndrome of long-term drinking. The whole family turns on one discrimination, delirium versus dementia, and each dementia announces itself by what changed first, memory, steps, personality, or hallucinations and stiffness.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the organic and neurocognitive disorders, where the trouble is in the physical brain.
The task is to separate the acute and reversible, delirium, from the chronic and progressive, dementia, and then to name which dementia by the shape of its onset, before giving the formulation and the support.
The thread is the level of consciousness, clouded and fluctuating in delirium, clear in dementia, and the search for reversible and physical causes before anything is put down to a permanent decline.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
Tell me what you, or the family, have noticed changing, and when it began, and whether it has been steady, or come and gone, or come on in steps.
Then you listen for the shape. Sudden, fluctuating and clouded is delirium. Gradual is a dementia, and what changed first, memory, planning in steps, personality, or hallucinations with stiffness, names which one.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Delirium
First, delirium. An acute confusion caused by something physical, with a fluctuating course and an impaired attention at its centre. It is not dementia, and it is usually reversible once the cause is found.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Onset and course.
When did the change begin? And does it come and go through the day?
Symptom 2. Attention.
Can he hold a conversation? Or does he drift away from you mid-sentence?
Symptom 3. Awareness and orientation.
Does he know where he is, and what time of day it is?
Symptom 4. Perceptual disturbance.
Is he seeing things that are not there, or misreading what is around him?
Symptom 5. Sleep-wake cycle.
Is he awake at night and asleep during the day?
Symptom 6. The cause.
What has changed physically? Infection, urine, constipation, a new drug, alcohol withdrawal?
Then, to close, these.
Do you know where you are at the moment? And what time of day it is? Have you been seeing anything that other people cannot see? Are you sleeping at night, or in the day? Spoken to the family, when exactly did he change, and is he the same all day, or worse at some times? There is usually a physical cause for this, and once we find it and treat it, this settles.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What has happened to him is delirium. It is an acute confusion, caused by something physical, and it is why he is muddled, why he is seeing things, and why he is better at some times of day than others. It is not dementia, and it is usually reversible. The most important treatment is medical, which is to find and treat the cause. An infection, constipation, dehydration, or a medication. Alongside that, practical measures matter enormously. Familiar faces, his glasses and hearing aid, daylight, quiet at night, and orientation. We use sedating medication only if he is distressed or at risk. It can take some weeks to clear completely.
Alzheimer's dementia
Alzheimer's dementia. The commonest dementia, gradual, affecting recent memory first, which is why old memories are intact and yesterday's conversation is not. No cure, but a great deal that can be done.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Memory.
What sort of things does she forget? Recent conversations, or things from years ago?
Symptom 2. Onset and course.
Did it come on gradually over months and years? Or in sudden steps?
Symptom 3. Other cognitive domains.
Any trouble finding words, getting lost in familiar places, or managing money?
Symptom 4. Function.
What can she no longer do for herself? Cooking, bills, medication, washing?
Symptom 5. Behavioural and psychological symptoms.
Any agitation, suspicion, seeing things, wandering, or day and night reversal?
Symptom 6. Reversible causes.
Any low mood, alcohol, thyroid problem, vitamin B12 deficiency, or head injury?
Then, to close, these.
How long have you been noticing this? What have you had to stop doing for yourself? Are you still driving? Are you managing your money and your tablets? Who is at home with you, and how are they coping?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What the tests and your story point to is Alzheimer's disease. It is the commonest form of dementia. It affects recent memory first, which is why old memories are intact and yesterday's conversation is not. There is no cure, and I am not going to pretend otherwise, but there is a great deal we can do. Medically, a medication such as donepezil, which can help symptoms and slow the day-to-day decline for a period. Psychologically, cognitive stimulation therapy, which has good evidence. And socially, this is where most of the help lives. Support at home, memory clinic follow-up, carer support, financial help, lasting power of attorney, and an honest conversation about driving.
Vascular dementia
Vascular dementia. Damage to the brain's blood supply, coming on in steps rather than gradually, and affecting planning and speed more than memory. The most important treatment is protecting the brain that remains.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Course.
Did it come on in steps, with sudden drops and then plateaus?
Symptom 2. Vascular history.
Any strokes, mini-strokes, high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholesterol, or heart trouble?
Symptom 3. Domain pattern.
Is it more about planning, slowness and organising than about forgetting?
Symptom 4. Focal signs.
Any weakness, speech difficulty, or change in the way he walks?
Symptom 5. Emotional change.
Is he tearful, or does the emotion come out of proportion to what he feels?
Symptom 6. Function.
What has he stopped being able to do?
Then, to close, these.
Did it come on in steps, with sudden drops, or slowly all the way? Have you had a stroke, or a mini-stroke, or been told about your blood pressure? What have you had to stop doing? Are you still driving? The most important thing we can do now is look after your blood pressure, your sugar and your cholesterol.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is vascular dementia. It is caused by the blood supply to the brain being damaged, which is why it has come on in steps rather than gradually, and why the planning and the speed are more affected than the memory. The single most important treatment is medical, and it is not a memory tablet. It is controlling your blood pressure, your diabetes, your cholesterol, and stopping smoking, because that is what protects the brain you still have. Alongside that, cognitive stimulation and rehabilitation, treatment of any depression, and practical support at home. The memory medications are not licensed for this type, and I would rather tell you that than start something that will not help.
Frontotemporal dementia
Frontotemporal dementia. A dementia of the front of the brain, where the personality and behaviour change before the memory does, which is why it is so often mistaken for depression.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Behaviour before memory.
Has his behaviour or his personality changed before his memory did?
Symptom 2. Disinhibition.
Has he said or done things in public that he never would have done before?
Symptom 3. Apathy and loss of empathy.
Has he lost interest? Has he stopped noticing how other people feel?
Symptom 4. Rituals and routines.
Any fixed routines, the same walk, the same meal, the same words?
Symptom 5. Eating.
Has what he eats changed? Sweet things especially, or eating far more?
Symptom 6. Language.
Any loss of words, or speech becoming effortful?
Then, to close, these.
Spoken to the relative, did his personality change before his memory did? Has he said or done anything in public that he never would have before? Has what he eats changed at all? How are you coping, at home, with all of this? This is a form of dementia, but not the usual kind, and that is why it has been hard to name.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What I think this is, is frontotemporal dementia. It is a form of dementia that affects the front of the brain, which is why the personality and the behaviour changed before the memory did. That is why it has been so often mistaken for depression. I want to be honest. There is no medication that slows it, and the memory medicines used in Alzheimer's do not help here and can make it worse. What does help is practical and psychological. Structure and routine, changing the environment rather than arguing with the behaviour, speech and language therapy where the words are affected, treating distress with an antidepressant rather than an antipsychotic, and above all, real support for you as the family. You are carrying a great deal.
Lewy body dementia
Dementia with Lewy bodies. Fluctuating cognition, well-formed visual hallucinations, and parkinsonism, together in one person. And a severe sensitivity to certain antipsychotics that you must warn about.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Fluctuating cognition.
Does she have good days and bad days? Or good hours and bad hours?
Symptom 2. Visual hallucinations.
Does she see people or animals that are not there? Are they detailed and well formed?
Symptom 3. Parkinsonism.
Any slowness, stiffness, tremor, or falls?
Symptom 4. Dream enactment.
Does she act out her dreams? Shouting, kicking, or hitting out in her sleep?
Symptom 5. Antipsychotic sensitivity.
Has she ever had a severe reaction to an antipsychotic?
Symptom 6. Autonomic features.
Fainting, constipation, or bladder trouble?
Then, to close, these.
Does she have good days and bad days, or good hours and bad hours? What does she see? Are they clear and detailed? Has she had any falls? Has she ever had a bad reaction to a medication for her mind? I want to be clear with you. Certain antipsychotic medicines are dangerous in this condition, and we will avoid them.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What she has is dementia with Lewy bodies. It explains all three things you have described. The good days and bad days, the seeing of people who are not there, and the stiffness and the falls. There is something I must be very clear about. Certain antipsychotic medicines are dangerous in this condition and can cause a severe reaction, so we avoid them, and you should tell any doctor who treats her. Medically, a medication such as rivastigmine often helps the hallucinations and the thinking. Practically, falls prevention, good lighting, and a medication review to remove anything sedating. And socially, carer support, because this one is hard to live with.
Korsakoff syndrome
Korsakoff syndrome. Long-term drinking and a lack of vitamin B1 have injured the part of the brain that lays down new memories, so the past is clear and today will not stick, and the mind fills the gaps without knowing it.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Anterograde amnesia.
Can you tell me what happened yesterday? What did you have for breakfast?
Symptom 2. Orientation.
Do you know where we are, and what today's date is?
Symptom 3. Confabulation. Ask about the admission, then ask again later, and listen for a different, confidently given account.
Symptom 4. Preserved domains. Attention, language and old skills are relatively intact, which is the contrast that makes the diagnosis.
Symptom 5. The preceding syndrome.
Was there a spell of confusion, unsteadiness, or trouble with the eyes?
Symptom 6. Aetiology.
How much have you been drinking, for how long? And have you been eating?
Then, to close, these.
Can you tell me again where we are, and what brought you in? How much have you been drinking, and for how long? Have you been eating properly through that time? How are you managing at home? Who is helping you? Your memory has been injured by the drinking, and we will support you with that, rather than test you on it.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is Korsakoff's syndrome. Long-term drinking, together with a lack of vitamin B1, has injured the part of the brain that lays down new memories. That is why the past is clear and today will not stick, and why your mind fills the gaps without you knowing it is doing so. That filling in is not lying. Medically, high-dose thiamine, given by injection first, and complete abstinence from alcohol, because that is what stops it getting worse. Practically, memory aids, routine, notebooks, and a supported placement where you have help. Some of it recovers slowly. Some of it stays, and we build around it.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - Delirium versus dementia
This is the discrimination the whole family turns on. Delirium is acute, fluctuating, with clouded consciousness and impaired attention, on a physical trigger, and it is reversible. Dementia is gradual, in clear consciousness, and progressive. The shape of the onset, and whether attention and consciousness are clouded, decides it. A confused patient who drifts is delirious until proven otherwise.
2 - The four dementias, told apart by their opening move
Alzheimer's leads with recent memory, gradually. Vascular comes in steps, with a vascular history and affected planning. Frontotemporal changes personality and behaviour before memory. Lewy body brings fluctuation, visual hallucinations and parkinsonism together. Ask what came first, memory, steps, personality, or hallucinations and stiffness, and it names itself.
3 - Depression versus dementia, the pseudodementia
A depressed older person may present with memory failure. But they say I do not know rather than confabulate, effort is poor and mood is low, attention is impaired while other domains hold, and imaging is normal. Do not diagnose dementia in a profoundly depressed patient. Treat the depression and retest; the cognition often recovers.
4 - Frontotemporal dementia versus an acquired personality change
Late-onset disinhibition, apathy and coarsened behaviour, progressing over years in someone previously mild-mannered, is frontotemporal dementia, not a personality disorder and not simple bad behaviour. The late onset and the progression give it away. Ask when the change began and whether it has steadily worsened.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one discrimination. The shape of the onset and the clarity of consciousness separate the reversible confusion of delirium from the progressive dementias, and each dementia is named by what changed first.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Eating and Feeding Disorders
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Eating and Feeding Disorders bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of the eating disorders. All three share one engine, an overvalued idea that weight and shape are the true measure of a person's worth. What separates them is the behaviour, restriction, binge and compensation, or binge alone. You elicit the meaning behind the behaviour, you keep numbers and targets out of the room, and you never let the illness recruit you as its ally.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the eating disorders, all driven by an overvalued idea about weight and shape.
The task is to elicit the psychopathology and the behaviours sensitively, judge the physical risk, and give a formulation that names the illness as an illness, not a choice.
The thread is that you draw out the meaning rather than the numbers, you never collude with the drive to thinness or reassure about appearance, and you always screen the mood and the physical danger.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
I am not here to weigh you down with rules or numbers. I would like to understand how things have been for you, with eating, and with how you feel about yourself.
Then you listen for the behaviour, which tells the members apart. Marked restriction and a low weight. Binges followed by vomiting or laxatives. Or binges without any compensation. And you hold, throughout, that the overvalued idea is the illness, not the number on a scale.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Anorexia nervosa
First, anorexia nervosa. A serious illness, not a lifestyle choice and not attention-seeking, that makes weight and shape feel like the most important thing about the person, and that hides how ill the body is getting.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Restriction.
Take me through everything you have had to eat and drink in the last day or so.
Symptom 2. Low body weight.
What has your weight done recently? What is the most, and the least, you have ever weighed?
Symptom 3. Overvalued idea of shape and weight.
How do you feel about your body? Do you see yourself as a normal size, or as too big?
Symptom 4. Fear of weight gain.
What would it mean to you, in yourself, if your weight went up a little?
Symptom 5. Compensatory behaviour.
Do you make yourself sick, use laxatives, diet pills, or exercise to control your weight?
Symptom 6. Physical consequences.
Have your periods stopped? Feeling cold, faint, or dizzy? Any change in your hair?
Then, to close, these.
What has your weight done recently, and how do you feel about that? Have your periods stopped? Are you feeling cold, faint, or dizzy? What would it mean to you, in yourself, to put on a little weight? I would like to check your pulse, your blood pressure and your bloods today, because I care about protecting your heart. Who knows about this, and who is supporting you?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is anorexia nervosa. It is a serious illness, and it is not a lifestyle choice or something you are doing for attention. The illness makes weight and shape feel like the most important thing about you, and it is very good at hiding how ill your body is getting. Treatment has three parts. Medically, looking after your heart and your body, and careful refeeding, because feeding you too fast is itself dangerous. Psychologically, and this is the main treatment, a specialist therapy for eating disorders, or family therapy where you are younger. And socially, support with school or work, and your family alongside you. People do recover from this fully. I am not going to take control away from you, I am going to help you get free of something that has taken it.
Bulimia nervosa
Bulimia nervosa. A cycle. You restrict, the body drives a binge, the shame drives the vomiting, and the vomiting makes the next binge more likely. That is why willpower has not broken it, and it is not a lack of willpower.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The binge.
Do you have times when you eat a very large amount, quickly, with a sense that you cannot stop?
Symptom 2. Compensation.
What do you do afterwards? Vomiting, laxatives, fasting, exercising?
Symptom 3. Frequency and duration.
How often does that happen, and how long has it been going on?
Symptom 4. Overvalued idea.
How much do your weight and your shape decide how you feel about yourself?
Symptom 5. Secrecy and shame.
Who knows about this?
Symptom 6. Physical consequences.
Any dizziness, palpitations, dental problems, or swelling by your jaw?
Then, to close, these.
How often is this happening now, and for how long has it been going on? Any dizziness, palpitations, or swelling by your jaw? How are your teeth? Who knows about this? And how has your mood been? Have you ever harmed yourself?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is bulimia nervosa. It is a cycle. You restrict, then the body drives a binge, then the shame drives the vomiting, and the vomiting makes the next binge more likely. That is why willpower has not broken it, and it is not a lack of willpower. Treatment is effective. Psychologically, guided self-help first, then cognitive behavioural therapy for eating disorders, which is the main treatment. Medically, fluoxetine at a higher dose than we use for depression, and blood tests to check your salts, plus a dentist, because the acid damages the enamel. And socially, regular eating, and support so you do not have to keep it secret. I will not be talking to you in numbers or targets, I will be helping you get free of the cycle.
Binge eating disorder
Binge eating disorder. Real episodes of loss of control, with no purging afterwards, so it is often missed and the person is simply told to eat less. That is not treatment.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. The binge.
Do you eat a large amount in one go, faster than usual, with a loss of control?
Symptom 2. Context.
Do you eat when you are not hungry, or alone because you are embarrassed?
Symptom 3. Distress afterwards.
How do you feel when it is over?
Symptom 4. Absence of compensation.
Do you do anything afterwards to make up for it?
Symptom 5. Frequency.
How often, and for how long has this been going on?
Symptom 6. Consequences. Weight, mood, and any related health, asked gently and without making the weight the focus.
Then, to close, these.
How often is this happening, and for how long? Do you do anything afterwards to make up for it? How do you feel about yourself afterwards? How has your mood been alongside this? Has your health changed because of it?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you have is binge eating disorder. The binges are real episodes of loss of control, and because you do not purge afterwards, it is often missed, and people are told simply to eat less. That is not treatment. Psychologically, guided self-help and then cognitive behavioural therapy for eating disorders is the first-line treatment, and it works. Medically, we would treat any depression alongside, and look after your related health without making your weight the focus of the conversation. And socially, regular meals rather than restriction, because restriction is what sets up the next binge.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - Anorexia versus bulimia versus binge eating
The engine is shared, an overvaluation of weight and shape, but the behaviour and the weight separate them. Anorexia is marked restriction and a low weight. Bulimia is binges followed by compensation, usually at a normal weight. Binge eating is binges without any compensation. Ask about binges, loss of control, and what is done afterwards, to place it.
2 - An eating disorder versus ordinary body dissatisfaction
Disliking one's weight, low self-esteem about shape, even eating out of control in the evenings, is not an eating disorder without the overvaluation of shape as the measure of worth, and, for anorexia and bulimia, a compensatory behaviour. Simply not liking one's size is an ordinary human position. Say that difference rather than reaching for a diagnosis.
3 - Food rituals of an eating disorder versus obsessive-compulsive disorder
Cutting, mashing, separating and counting look identical to compulsions. The engine differs. In an eating disorder the thinness is desired; in obsessive-compulsive disorder the thought is resisted and hated. Ask what the ritual is for. If the answer is thinness, it is an eating disorder.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one line. The overvalued idea of shape and weight is the illness, so elicit the meaning, never the numbers, and never let the illness make you its ally.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Neurodevelopmental Disorders
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Neurodevelopmental Disorders bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of the neurodevelopmental conditions. Every member is lifelong, present from early development, even when it only becomes limiting as the demands of life outgrow the person's ways of coping. Two errors sink the station, calling a lifelong difference a new illness, and, the opposite, blaming a genuinely new symptom on the disability. Date everything, and adapt how you interview.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the neurodevelopmental conditions, present from early childhood.
The task is to establish the lifelong pattern, adapt the interview to the person, and, where there is a new change on a known baseline, hunt a fresh cause rather than overshadowing.
The thread is a single axis, lifelong versus new, and the cardinal rule that a new symptom in a person with a disability needs a fresh cause found, never attributed to the disability by default.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
I will ask fairly direct questions, one at a time, and if anything is unclear just tell me and I will put it another way. To understand this properly, I would like to go right back, what were you like as a child?
Then, for every difficulty they raise, you drop the anchor that decides it. Has this been true since you were young, or is it something that has changed more recently. Lifelong points to a neurodevelopmental condition unmasked by demand. New on a lifelong baseline points to a fresh, treatable problem on top.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder
First, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. Present since childhood, showing in more than one part of the life, and costing real things. It is not laziness, and it is not an intelligence problem.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Inattention.
Do you find it hard to sustain attention, to finish what you start, or to follow instructions to the end?
Symptom 2. Hyperactivity.
Are you restless? Do you struggle to sit through a meal, a meeting, or a film?
Symptom 3. Impulsivity.
Do you interrupt people, or act before you have thought it through?
Symptom 4. Childhood onset.
Was this there at school? What did your reports say about you?
Symptom 5. Pervasiveness.
Does it show at work as well as at home? In more than one setting?
Symptom 6. Impairment.
What has it cost you? Jobs, money, relationships, driving?
Then, to close, these.
Was this there at school? What did your reports say about you? Does it show at work as well as at home? What has it cost you? Jobs, money, relationships, driving? Is there anyone who knew you as a child that I could speak to? How much alcohol or anything else are you using to manage it?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
From everything you and your mother have told me, you have attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. It has been there since childhood, it shows in more than one part of your life, and it has cost you real things. It is not laziness, and it is not an intelligence problem. Treatment is not only medication. Medically, a stimulant such as methylphenidate or lisdexamfetamine, with your blood pressure, pulse and weight monitored, or atomoxetine if a stimulant is not suitable. Psychologically, cognitive behavioural therapy adapted for attention difficulty, and coaching. And practically, structure, lists, alarms, adjustments at work, and treating the alcohol if it has been doing the job of the medication.
Autism spectrum disorder
Autism spectrum disorder. Not an illness and nothing to cure, but a lifelong difference in how the person processes people, information and the world. What we treat is anything that is causing suffering.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Social reciprocity.
Growing up, did you find it hard to make friends, or to know what to say to people?
Symptom 2. Non-verbal communication.
How do you find eye contact, reading tone of voice, or working out what someone means?
Symptom 3. Restricted interests.
Are there subjects you get deeply absorbed in, more than other people do?
Symptom 4. Insistence on sameness.
Do you have routines you need to keep? How is it when plans change at short notice?
Symptom 5. Sensory sensitivity.
How are you with noise, bright light, textures, or labels in clothing?
Symptom 6. Onset and impairment.
Has this been the case since early childhood? And where does it cause you difficulty now?
Then, to close, these.
Has this been the way you are since you were a small child? Where does it cause you the most difficulty now? Is there anyone who remembers your early childhood that I could speak to? How is your mood, and your anxiety, alongside all of this? What would help you most, if we could change one thing about how the world meets you?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
From what you have described, and from what your childhood history tells me, you are autistic. I want to be careful with my words here. This is not an illness and there is nothing to cure. It is a lifelong difference in how you process people, information and the world around you. What we treat is anything that is causing you suffering. Medically, any co-occurring anxiety, depression or attention difficulty. Psychologically, adapted therapy, which needs to be more concrete and more visual than standard therapy. And socially, and this is the biggest part, adjustments. At work, at appointments, with noise and light, and with how much notice you get before things change. The diagnosis itself often helps people a great deal.
Intellectual disability
Intellectual disability. Present since childhood, graded on both intellectual and everyday functioning. When someone with a disability presents with a new change, you look for a fresh cause first, and never blame it on the disability.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Intellectual functioning.
How did he get on at school? Did he need extra help?
Symptom 2. Adaptive, conceptual.
Can he manage money, time, reading, and forms?
Symptom 3. Adaptive, social.
How does he get on with other people? Is he easily led?
Symptom 4. Adaptive, practical.
Can he cook, travel, and look after himself and his home?
Symptom 5. Onset.
Has this been the case since childhood?
Symptom 6. Change from baseline.
What could he do a year ago that he cannot do now?
Then, to close, these.
Spoken to the carer, what could he do a year ago that he cannot do now? How is he with money, with travel, with looking after himself? Is he in any pain? Constipated? Any trouble with his teeth, or any fits? Has anything changed around him? A move, a new member of staff, a loss? Nothing here should be put down to his disability until we have checked his body first.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
What you are describing in him is a change from his usual self, and I do not want to put that down to his learning disability, because that is a mistake we make too often. First, medically, we look for a physical cause. Pain, constipation, teeth, an infection, seizures, or a medication side effect. Then we look at his mental health, because depression in someone with a learning disability often shows as withdrawal and behaviour rather than as words. Then, psychologically and socially, we look at what has changed around him, and whether the behaviour is communicating an unmet need. Medication for behaviour is the last resort, not the first. And we would want to be sure that nobody is mistreating him.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - Lifelong versus new, the whole family's axis
Every neurodevelopmental condition is present from early childhood, even when it only becomes disabling as demands rise. So the first question for any new-looking difficulty is when it began. A lifelong pattern unmasked by a promotion, a move, or a loss of support is not a new illness. Anchor everything to childhood.
2 - Attention difficulty versus its imitators
Distractibility and restlessness can be a mood or anxiety disorder, a sleep disorder, or substance use, none of which are lifelong and pervasive from childhood. Stimulant intoxication in particular mimics it. Anchor to childhood onset and pervasiveness, and exclude a discrete mood episode and current substance use, before settling on it.
3 - Autism versus a psychotic illness
Lifelong social difficulty, literalness and intense interests are autism, present from childhood. A new withdrawal, odd beliefs and perceptual changes emerging later point to a psychosis, sometimes layered on top. In a person with both, ask what has changed recently, because the autism is stable and the psychosis is the new, treatable layer.
4 - Diagnostic overshadowing, the cardinal error
When a person with a known disability presents with a new symptom, agitation, withdrawal, a change in behaviour, the error is to attribute it to the disability. Look instead for a fresh cause, a depression, a delirium, pain, constipation, or abuse. Often there are several at once. Never let the lifelong label hide a treatable new problem.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one axis. Lifelong versus new, and a new symptom in a person with a disability gets a fresh cause found, never blamed on the disability.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Personality Disorders
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Personality Disorders bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family of the enduring patterns of relating and feeling. The modern frame grades the disorder by severity and describes it by trait, with the borderline pattern as its most examined form. The whole skill is telling a lifelong pattern from an episode, a situation, or an acquired change, and doing it in warm, non-pejorative language, because a pattern is described, never a person judged.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the personality disorders, the enduring patterns of self and relationships.
The task is to establish that the difficulty is a genuine pattern, enduring, pervasive, early and impairing, describe it without judgement, and offer a plan whose heart is a structured therapy, not a tablet.
The thread is that the words are marked as hard as the symptoms, that you describe a pattern rather than label a person, and that you refuse to over-call a pattern where an episode, a situation, or an acquired change fits better.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
Before we get to what brought you in today, I would like to understand you a little. Before all this, what sort of person were you, and has this been a pattern for you over the years, or is it something new?
Then you run the four tests in your head, enduring, early, pervasive, impairing, and you draw out the relational pattern, how relationships start and end, the sense of self, the emptiness, and the way feelings come and go under stress.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Personality disorder, the ICD-11 frame
First, the personality disorder itself, in its modern frame. Long-standing difficulties, going back to youth, showing across the life rather than in one place. You describe a pattern, not a person, and the words are marked as hard as the symptoms.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Pattern, not episode.
What sort of person were you before all this started? Has this been how things have been for years?
Symptom 2. Self functioning.
How do you see yourself? Do you have a steady sense of who you are and what you want?
Symptom 3. Interpersonal functioning.
How do relationships tend to go for you? And how do they tend to end?
Symptom 4. Severity.
How much of your life does this affect? Is anything still working?
Symptom 5. Trait qualifiers. Held in the clinician's mind. Negative affectivity, detachment, dissociality, disinhibition, anankastia, plus the borderline pattern.
Symptom 6. Onset.
When did you first notice this was how things went for you?
Then, to close, these.
How long have things been this way for you? Since your teens, or is this new? What is still working in your life? How much are you drinking or using? What would you want to be different, a year from now? I am not going to label you and leave. This is something we can work on together.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
From what you have told me, the difficulties you have had are long-standing, they go back to when you were young, and they show up across your life rather than only in one place. We would describe that as a personality disorder. I know that phrase can sound like a judgement, and I do not mean it as one. It describes a pattern, not a verdict on who you are. There is no tablet for the pattern itself. Medically, we treat depression, anxiety or anything else alongside it. Psychologically, and this is the real treatment, a structured therapy such as dialectical behaviour therapy or mentalisation-based therapy. And socially, stability, a consistent team, and a plan that everyone follows. People do get better with this.
Borderline pattern
The borderline pattern. Intense feelings that come fast and settle slowly, relationships that get very close then break, a sense of emptiness, and self-harm that is doing something for the person rather than being simply attention-seeking.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Affective instability.
Does your mood shift within a single day, in response to what is going on around you?
Symptom 2. Fear of abandonment.
What happens inside you when someone is about to leave?
Symptom 3. Unstable relationships.
Do relationships go from very close to very bad, quickly?
Symptom 4. Identity and emptiness.
Do you know who you are? Do you feel empty inside?
Symptom 5. Impulsivity.
Do you do things on the spur of the moment that you regret? Spending, drinking, sex, driving?
Symptom 6. Self-harm, and its function.
What does the cutting do for you? How do you feel just before, and just after?
Symptom 7. Transient stress-related symptoms.
Under stress, do you ever hear things, or feel detached and unreal?
Then, to close, these.
How long has it been like this? Since you were a teenager? What does the cutting do for you? How do you feel just before, and just after? Who is in your life at the moment that you trust? What has helped in the past, even a little? Are you safe to go home tonight, and what would you do if it built up again?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
From everything you have told me, the pattern is a long-standing one, going back to your teens. Intense feelings that come fast and take a long time to settle, relationships that get very close and then break, a sense of emptiness, and the cutting, which I understand is doing something for you rather than being simply attention seeking. That pattern is what we call the borderline pattern. Medication is not the main treatment, and I would be cautious about adding tablets. The real treatment is psychological, dialectical behaviour therapy or mentalisation-based therapy, which teach you to hold the feeling without acting on it. And practically, one consistent team, a crisis plan you have helped write, and making the home safer.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - A personality pattern versus a single episode
A pattern is enduring, pervasive across the life, present from adolescence, and impairing. One bad night, an impulsive act after drinking, in someone whose mood settles by the next day and who does not fear abandonment, is not a personality pattern. The honest answer may be uncertainty, and tolerating that, considering depression, an acute stress reaction and intoxication, is itself the mark.
2 - A personality pattern versus a situational reaction
Isolation, anxiety, low mood, dependence and evasiveness can be the consequences of a live situation, above all an abusive, controlling relationship, rather than traits. A pattern that started in adulthood in response to another person's behaviour is not a personality disorder. Ask what is currently happening to the person before you call anything enduring.
3 - A personality pattern versus an acquired change
Disinhibition, apathy and coarsened behaviour beginning in middle age in someone previously mild-mannered, and progressing over years, is an acquired frontal change such as a dementia, not a personality disorder. The late onset and the progression give it away. Ask when the change began and whether it has steadily worsened.
4 - Borderline pattern versus attention difficulty
Adult attention difficulty also starts in childhood, is pervasive, and produces impulsivity and friction. But there the trouble is with attention and structure, not with relationships and identity, and there is no abandonment fear, no unstable self-image, no self-harm. Ask whether the core difficulty is concentration, or relationships and identity.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one discipline. Establish a genuine pattern by the four tests, describe a pattern not a person, and refuse to over-call it where an episode, a situation, or an acquired change fits better.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.
Risk Assessment
Before we begin
Welcome. This is the Risk Assessment bank. A family of conditions, taken one at a time, each drawn out the same way, and each closed the same way.
This is the family that is not a diagnosis but a task, and the one that fails stations outright. Risk is a narrative you draw out, warmly and without judgement, not a checklist you rattle through. The examiner is always asking the same thing underneath, what has the illness made this person do, or what might it drive them to do next, and how well have you weighed the factors that hold them back.
Two habits carry every one of these cluster stations. Keep them close.
One. One question opens each symptom. You do not fire a checklist. For each feature you want, you have a single, natural opening question. You ask it, you let them talk, and you move on the moment you have what you came for. The list lives in your head, never in your mouth.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. You name the condition plainly, in words the person can hold, and then, in the same breath, you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social. A name without a plan frightens people. A name with a plan is treatment.
Ready. Let us walk in.
What this family is
Picture the family as a whole before you meet its members.
This is the family of the risk assessments, to the self and to others. It carries no ICD code, but it decides more stations than any diagnosis.
The task is to draw out the risk as a story, before, during and after an act, or along the gradient of an intention, and then to weigh it, and set a plan and a safety net.
The thread is that you never pass a categorical judgement, that you weigh protective factors rather than listing them, and that you are honest about what you cannot keep confidential when someone is in danger.
Check. Does the shape of the family make sense. Good. Let us find the opening.
The opening, shared across the family
However the door is labelled, you open the same way, warm and wide, and let them lead.
Say something like this.
Thank you for talking to me, I know this is hard. Can you take me through what happened, in your own words, starting from before, when things began to build up?
Then you let the narrative run, and much of the assessment falls out of it. You clarify gently rather than interrogating, you place the current intent along the gradient from a passing thought to a formed plan, and you weigh what holds the person back.
Then, once you know which member of the family you are in, you switch to its own questions, one opener per symptom, and you close on its own formulation.
Check. Shall we meet them, one at a time. Let us.
Suicide risk after an attempt
First, suicide risk after an attempt. You draw it out as a narrative, before, during and after, never as a checklist, and you never pass a categorical judgement, because that closes the person down.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Before, planning.
Take me through that day. Was it planned, or on the spur of the moment?
Symptom 2. Before, final acts.
Did you write a note, give things away, or put your affairs in order?
Symptom 3. During, the act.
What did you take, or do? What did you believe would happen?
Symptom 4. During, precautions.
Did you do it where you might be found? Or did you make sure you would not be?
Symptom 5. After, discovery.
Who found you? Did you tell anyone, or seek help yourself?
Symptom 6. Now, intent.
How do you feel now that you survived? Do you still feel the same way?
Symptom 7. Protective factors.
What has kept you going up to now? Who is at home?
Then, to close, these.
How do you feel now, knowing that you survived? Do you still feel the same way as you did that day? What has kept you going up to now? Is there anything at home, tablets or anything else, that we should sort out together? Who is at home with you tonight?
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
Thank you for being so honest with me. What you have told me tells me two things. That you were serious that night, and that part of you is still here talking to me now. I think you have a depressive illness, and depression is treatable, and it lies to people about whether things can change. Medically, we would start an antidepressant and review you quickly. Psychologically, talking therapy, and in the meantime a safety plan written by you and me together. Your warning signs, what you will do, who you will call. And practically, making the house safer, removing the tablets, and getting the people who care about you involved. You will not be leaving here without a plan and a date.
Violence risk
Violence risk. Structured around the history, the current drivers in the mental state, and the situation. You are honest and plain, and you tell the person that where someone is in danger you cannot keep it between you, and you will tell them before you tell anyone else.
The symptoms, and the one question that opens each
Symptom 1. Historical.
Have you ever hurt anybody, or come close to it? Tell me about the worst time.
Symptom 2. Current drivers in the mental state.
Is there a belief, or a voice, that pushes you towards it?
Symptom 3. The target.
Is there someone in particular? Do you know where they are?
Symptom 4. Means and planning.
Have you thought about how? Do you have anything at home?
Symptom 5. Disinhibitors.
How much are you drinking or using? Are you taking your medication?
Symptom 6. Protective and situational factors.
What has stopped you so far? Who else is in the house? Any children?
Then, to close, these.
Is there someone in particular that you feel this way about? Have you thought about how? Is there anything at home? What has stopped you so far? I have to be honest with you. If someone is in danger, I cannot keep that between us, and I will tell you before I tell anyone else.
Then you name it plainly, and you give the plan in three parts. Biological, psychological, social.
Thank you for telling me. I am going to be straight with you, because I think you would rather I was. I think you are unwell, and that the illness is driving these thoughts, and that means they can be treated. Medically, an antipsychotic, and if you have stopped your medication, we need to restart it, possibly as a long-acting injection. Psychologically, work on the beliefs and the anger once you are settled. And practically, admission, sometimes under the Mental Health Act, so that you are safe and so is everybody else. I also have to tell you that where someone is specifically at risk, I cannot keep that between us. I will tell you before I tell anyone else. I would rather do this with you than to you.
Telling them apart. The discriminators.
Half the marks in any cluster station are for telling the members apart. Say the discriminator out loud.
1 - High intent versus high lethality
The seriousness of intent is not the medical dangerousness of the act. A small overdose taken in the true belief it would kill, told to no one, with precautions against discovery, is high intent even if medically minor. Judge the intent from planning, precautions, final acts and regret, not the pharmacology. Underestimating a low-lethality act with high intent is the classic error.
2 - The physical risk that kills before the wish does
Sometimes the illness drives a behaviour whose physical consequences will kill first, food and fluid refusal from a nihilistic delusion, profound self-neglect. Name both the expressed wish and the physical risk, and say which is likely to end life soonest. The passive death wish is not always the most urgent danger in the room.
3 - A protective factor weighed, not merely listed
A protective factor guards against a specific risk, by a specific mechanism, for a specific time. A supportive partner protects only while present, a child protects only until that relationship is threatened, help-seeking only while the person keeps engaging. Say the factor, what it guards against, and what would remove it. Listing is not weighing.
4 - Self-harm without suicidal intent, a separate enquiry
Self-harm to regulate an unbearable feeling and an attempt to die coexist, have different functions, and the presence of one says nothing about the other. Ask about each separately. A person who cuts to cope may also take an overdose to die, and only a second, distinct question uncovers it.
Check. Name the one that fits, and the feature that decided it. That is the mark.
The two habits, again
Carry these two out of the room, whichever member of the family you met.
One. One question opens each symptom. Ask the single opener, let them talk, move on. The full list stays in your head.
Two. Never close on a bare diagnosis. Name it plainly, then the plan in three parts, biological, psychological, social.
The thread through this whole family is one line. Draw the risk out as a narrative, never a checklist, judge intent over lethality, weigh every protective factor, and be honest about the limits of confidentiality.
Do those two things and any station in this family is yours.